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There are five basic steps to romancing your soulmate. If you are looking for a specific part of the process, simply click on the appropriate step below. Otherwise, continue reading after this list for all of the detail and links to resources you will need.
So often you live with the person you were once in love with and wonder where that incredible feeling ‘” the “I will love you forever’� feeling ‘” has gone.
Well, the passionate feelings that aroused your body when you were first in love have dissipated, and been replaced with other feelings! These may be feelings of contentment, loyalty, familiarity and respect. Or they may be feelings of frustration, annoyance, indifference or resentment.
If you have already completed my Intimacy Quadrant Quiz you will know what your “Mate Type’� is in your relationship. This next program is designed to set out the system you can use ‘” depending on whether you are a Housemate, Bestmate, Playmate or Soulmate to manipulate your man into doing your bidding!
If you haven’t done the Intimacy Quadrant Quiz yet, don’t worry. I’ll provide you the link in my Romance Your Soulmate program.
Romance Your Soulmate is all about romancing the person you love and finding greater connection, joy and fulfilment in your current relationship. The purpose of the five steps in the program is for you to understand how relationships work, and learn about the differences between men and women ‘” how they communicate, how they like to be loved, how they like to MAKE love! The AIM is to get back to Soulmate status in your relationship.
The five basic steps to manipulating your man into giving you more time, communication and sexual intimacy are:
In this module you will be looking at how to always present the best side of yourself and know your emotional style and how to control it. Remember you are looking to build a life-long relationship, so go out of your way to get noticed by your partner.
Recognize the importance of love languages or the way you give and receive love. Know why relationships fail and always have a strategy to move your partner on to the next step.
You are in a relationship but the zing has gone out of it. You have each returned to wanting to spend time with other friends, outside activities and hobbies. You feel worried that although you still love your partner, you may no longer be “in love’� with him or her, because your partner is no longer the total focus of your life. That early ‘spark’ seems to have left the relationship. We’ll explore limerence and its effect on your relationship I often have people tell me that they don’t feel at all loved by their partner. Yet if I ask the partner, they say that of course they love him or her. So why is this?
Imagine we all have an emotional fuel tank within us. And when our fuel tank runs dry, we need to refill it, in order to keep functioning. And to refuel, we don’t all go to the same gas station. We have preferences.
It’s the same with refilling our own emotional tanks. We have preferences. We don’t all like the same thing, in order to feel topped up! We’ll explore how you and your man give and receive love.
Finally, in my experience of counseling many hundreds of couples over the years, I have found that relationships fail for three main reasons:
In Flirting we’ll talk over these issues in detail to help you find reasons why you’re a housemate, bestmate, playmate or soulmate.
“Back to our Place’� is about recreating that safe place, where there is privacy, to talk to each other about how you really feel. Unless you are able to resolve your resentments, it will be difficult to re-engage with your partner. Those old hurts keep resurrecting whenever there is a new hurt, unless they have been dealt with. It’s about levelling, listening and validating your partner ‘” the fastest way for your resentments to be resolved.
You’ll learn a communication model, an effective communication technique and practise active listening, conveying acceptance, trust and respect at a relationship level. It is more than just hearing the words that the other person (the speaker) is saying. It is hearing his/her perspective or opinion about a topic, and accepting the speaker’s feelings and then indicating by your response “I understand that you feel such-and-such about a particular topic.’�
I teach you to drop the “YOU’� word and use “I’� language. My helping model of communication skills is aimed at assisting someone in managing his or her problem. It is not a therapy for solving the person’s problem. It is simply a way for you to improve your communication with your partner, and apply communication skills to assist your man and work with him on romance.
In the context of Romancing Your Soulmate, courting is about actively “wooing’� your disconnected partner back into a committed relationship with you. You are thus encouraging your partner to understand and agree to your receptiveness to a reengagement in your relationship. If you are estranged or living separately, you may want to consider first dating again with the intention of rebuilding emotional, spiritual and physical intimacy. I introduce the relationship cycle which describes the four major components of a relationship: effective communication, emotional intimacy, sensuality, and sexuality. It is particularly useful in illustrating what areas in your relationship need working on.
Women typically enter into a relationship through communication and emotional stability'”wanting a caring, loyal, and understanding partner. Women will only seek sexual fulfilment once emotional intimacy and… Read more…
