Long Distance Relationship Miracle
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When you play the Long Distance Relationship (LDR) game right, the attraction will be so strong that you and your partner won’t have a choice in the matter.
I call this building the “irresistible edge”. More on how it works over a long distance in just a bit…
My beautiful wife Marianne was the free-spirited type, a fellow Bostonite by birth but an aspiring short story film producer by calling. Part of me wanted Marianne to change course in college, to do something that would keep her local, with me.
But ultimately we both agreed that her passion called on her move out to the West Coast, where the very best film schools and opportunities in her field lied.
The first week was actually quite pleasant, Marianne called me thrilled about Los Angeles. “So sunny all day!” she squealed in delight. Warmth that just invites you outside to take a jog or have a picnic – even in mid-February!”
I’ll never forget that male voice. Something about not being close to your partner and sensing a potential rival just gets under your skin like nothing I’ve ever felt. It makes you both angry and fearful at the same time. You fear for your partner’s safety, and are somehow equally angry at their lack of understanding of what’s going on in your own mind.
Our relationship continued through various phone and Internet lines. Pangs of fear, jealousy, and suspicion became more common on both sides.
One time Marianne cut me off doing an otherwise pleasant conversation. “I can hear what she’s whispering to you, you two-timing PIG!”
Once I escaped my confusion, I realized the seductive cosmetic ad on the TV behind me triggered her outburst.
A lot of time we had stupid fights just because of miscommunication via text messages. Can you believe that? Little things got blown out of proportion and caused big arguments.
I am sort of an introverted guy and sometimes I like to be on my own. But Marianne loved to chat about daily things and sometimes I felt like she was pushing me to communicate.
Whenever I delayed to reply her messages for whatever reason, even for good reasons such as work or my battery was dead, she felt neglected and thought I was with “someone”.
I knew Marianne was a wonderful girl and I was so lucky to have her. But all the negative emotions such as feeling jealous, needy and doubt made me feel like something was not quite right.
Both of us knew something had to be done to solve these issues that kept repeating themselves, week after week. Before it was too late and things broke down for GOOD…
As Marianne and I were in a relationship crisis, here were some interesting statistics and facts I found about distance relationships during my binge:
Imagine if you had to raise a baby that way – the baby would probably die from a lack of love and care. You and I are not so different.
1 out of 3 distance relationships were caused by college relocations, with most of the rest created by military or other work obligations.
Miscommunication and lack of communication are the most common problems that LDR couples have. When I talked to many couples on forums, some of them even said that most of their arguments are due to miscommunication via text… Surprise! I thought only me and Marianne are the only couple that has this silly issue!
Few couples are able to maintain this superhuman level of trust and confidence in one another, as distance relationships understandably make this a rather difficult endeavor. But those who do are substantially more likely to keep the relationships intact.
As I’ll explain in just a minute, sexuality involves so much more than physical contact. And when you do it right, your partner can’t help but lock you into his or her daily thoughts, constantly thinking of you and only you.
Through a slow, gradual process of testing and tweaking done by us and our peer groups, it was quite clear that that strong, intimate relationships could be strengthened with iron resolve and commitment using nothing but some simple mindset adjustments and daily rituals.
This is what we call our final iteration of the distance relationship guide that Marianne and I, along with our support group peers, worked so painstakingly on for nearly 3 years.
This guide contains the very best strategies to maximize any distance relationship. All aspects of long-distance relationships are covered in 7 chapters and multiple “major discussion” sections are also found towards the back of the book.
“My long distance relationship seemed almost over and as a last attempt to save it, I purchased this book. After reading this book, I finally understood why my partner was hot and cold with me. It always left me confused, not knowing if what I was doing was enough or even if it was right. It drove me crazy. I spent nights lying awake, tossing and turning in my bed, checking my smartphone for his messages. Needless to say I couldn’t focus on my work and soon I was getting warning letters from my work.
I was feeling lost. The thought to end the relationship crossed my mind but the more I thought about ending it, the more I crave them more. I decided to surprise him with a visit but I was so afraid that I would find another woman in his house that I decided to call off the plan.
Some days I never messaged him and didn’t receive a text in return, which drove me to the edge. Whenever I talked to him, I felt as if he was alright with the relationship but then there would be other talks where he seemed uninterested and cold. I… Read more…
