The After She Dumped Me Guide
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what you are going through is a piece of cake to me, I have been there before and just recently I got off the hardest one. I know what I am talking about here and will give you the guidance you need for those fresh feelings of yours. Based on my experience and things I have gone through and done, I am certainly positive about what may be your next moves or what you are thinking… So stop now, calm! And start thinking straight here! Most likely you are reasoning based on your FEELINGS and EMOTIONS ONLY! Chances are, by you doing whatever you might be thinking, is everything will go BAD for you!! Just… hold up those thoughts feelings for a bit… You can thank me later.
My story and probably yours too, everything was going well after the break up, I had accepted the idea of not being together anymore. In her words, I just was not the guy she wanted in that time. Of course I had thought the same before so I just went with it too, it worked for a bit. I was doing pretty well actually, but… the master killer… was every time I saw her!! As If something inside me started to grow again and woke me up making me try it and do something about it. I was not going to act on this I used to think, but a DESPERATE urgency for answers and action was what a good friend told me. Now, I understand it was not the wisest decision but I kind of started right after he said something like, “Bro! You are not in love with her you are just obsessed! Stop thinking about her and move on!” It was the almost EYE OPENER, the source of a deep thirst born in me for unknown answers that just had to begin… Not only I wasn’t sure about being in love or obsessed, I did not know how to use all these feelings for good, my well being. I was also in doubt for all of these break up things people wouldn’t say and I just wanted to figure out. I’ll tell you what I did to satisfy this thirst and why I should have waited.
I did what many guys would do after a break up and even when I modified a bit in the process, it’s almost the same. Straight to the point, I asked her to come back with me several times in different ways, under her conditions if she wanted to was the last one, I sent her flowers and chocolates (with a secret admirer note, she loved it btw but anyway did not work, later on she knew it was me of course), I met with friends often just because she was going to be there, and would go to places where I knew she was going to be… and a bit more stuff. You get it right?
better and recognizes the value I have and she missed. She even came once and asked me to “forgive her” for dumping me recognizing in her words, “I made a terrible mistake!! Can we be together..?”
I am involuntarily in charge now and she VALUES me more than I thought she would do!! It’s incredible…
Now is clear to me what I want, she is not in my plans, and she gets to live in the past we had once.
Along with the need of knowledge on break ups and relationships, there is the experience. Both knowledge and experience, most likely are killing you right now! and you haven’t notice it, just yet. So I can’t give you the experience right away, but what I can give you right away, is just the right amount of knowledge and understanding you need today!
Still in the relationship and when it started to get very close to an end, we went through a small normal couple fight I thought, which resulted in the last one. After the fight and a couple of days off not seeing each other, I arranged a serious talk to discuss our differences. On this day, the last day we were formally together, I expressed clearly my desires of stop being just “boy and girl” and be dating like any normal couple, either that or just being friends.
In other words, the reason why you may be thinking that she dumped you it’s either because you just can’t avoid thinking about her and it’s bothering you a lot; or because you really want to face the situation and stop feeling whatever you are feeling right now. Which any case are almost the same, you are accepting what happened to you and are willing to go through this getting what is good for you now on.
When we get a rejection from… let’s say “the girl of our dreams”, we are usually hurt really bad, I mean deeply hurt! And it gets even more painful if we have developed a special feeling for her, I mean beyond what everybody doesn’t understand and don’t feel what we feel; it may be love for her, a personal fulfillment with her, or some high very especial care she showed for you, that just can’t explain how it happened and suddenly started to grow…
I am Cruz Lopez and this is my story. The last relationship I had been was some sort of a formal relationship, I mean, she said she wasn’t ready for a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship just yet, but still she wanted to be with… Read more…
